Right Speech - Our speech shapes our relationship with our friends, family, and all those who we connect with in our daily life. Even our words on facebook, twitter or text messages on the phone greatly influence others. If you're ever having difficulty with your friends or family - check your speech.
In this practice, there are 5 things to check on before we speak to figure out if we are using right speech or not.
1) Is it the truth?
2) Is it spoken affectionately?
3) Is it beneficial?
4) Is it spoken with a mind of good-will?
5) Is it spoken at the right time?
Dharma Game: Decide on a date and make an intention that every sentence you speak fits in the above framework. Carry a pocket book and pen with you. Write down the sentences which you felt were not 'right speech'. At the end of the day, spend a few minutes celebrating your efforts and intention.
In this practice, there are 5 things to check on before we speak to figure out if we are using right speech or not.
1) Is it the truth?
2) Is it spoken affectionately?
3) Is it beneficial?
4) Is it spoken with a mind of good-will?
5) Is it spoken at the right time?
Dharma Game: Decide on a date and make an intention that every sentence you speak fits in the above framework. Carry a pocket book and pen with you. Write down the sentences which you felt were not 'right speech'. At the end of the day, spend a few minutes celebrating your efforts and intention.